Simone With TV on at Hotel Village, Hamburg Germany. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024
Text by Bob Shell, Copyright 2024
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A Vast Wasteland
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I grew up in television. My father, Jim Shell, was the news anchor for WSLS TV Channel 10, the NBC affiliate in Roanoke, Virginia, and I used to hang around the TV station as an obnoxious kid.. So it was natural for me to go to work in television after college. In 1971 I worked for WRFT TV Channel 27, in Roanoke, the ABC affiliate. My boss there was Adrian Cronauer, the man Robin Williams portrayed in the film ‘Good Morning Vietnam.’ It was a very small TV station, so everyone did everything. I did newscasts, weather reports, hosted late night horror movies, produced, directed, ran the soundboard, was staff artist and photographer, etc. It was a great learning experience.
Back in those days the man who headed the Federal Communications Commission, the FCC, was a fellow with the amazing name of Newton Minnow. I always thought he must have been teased in school for being called Newt Minnow, named for two little aquatic critters.
Anyway, after assuming chairmanship of the FCC, Mr. Minnow watched a lot of TV and famously called TV ‘a vast wasteland.’ In those pre-cable days, the FCC had near absolute control over TV. For example, there was an FCC rule against portraying superstition as factual. This resulted in the cancellation of ‘The Sixth Sense,’ a program I liked, because it portrayed psychic phenomena as true. It always bugged me that this rule wasn’t enforced against TV preachers. The worst I ever saw was Billy James Hargass who performed miracle healings on his program. Don Imus did a wonderful parody with his Billy Sol Hargass character.
When I watch TV today on cable, I ask myself ‘Where is Newt Minnow now that we need him?” TV today has sunk to depths he could never have imagined. But the FCC, by law, has jurisdiction only over broadcast TV and radio, it lacks any authority to regulate cable TV or cable radio. The results are obvious.
One thing the FCC did was regulate the amount of time commercials could take up in programs. When I worked in TV, we never ran more than two commercials in a single commercial break, only two breaks per half hour, and both commercials were thirty seconds in length. Today there are so many commercials in a break that I lose count! This, in my opinion, dilutes the value of them all. And it disrupts the continuity of the program. This is why old TV programs must be reedited to make room for all of the additional commercials, often disrupting the story.
When TV was broadcast-only we watched TV for free. The programming was paid for by the advertisers. Why today do we pay for cable TV and still suffer through commercials? It’s like double-taxation!
I’m an admitted news junkie. I watch NewsNation a lot to stay informed. But I’ve become burned out on repetition of the same commercials ad nauseam.
For example, if I see Jonathan Lawson hyping Colonial Penn life insurance again I may start pulling out my hair. I’ve noted that he says your rates will never increase, but he does not say that your coverage will never decrease!
Or the jewelry company called Pandora. Anyone who knows a bit of Greek mythology knows that Pandora was the first human woman. In Greek, Pandora means ‘All Gifts.’ After Zeus created her, he gave her a beautiful box, but strictly ordered her not to open it. Pandora could not restrain her curiosity and opened the box, releasing all evils upon mankind. Name your company after the person who unleashed all evil? What were they thinking?
I could go on about the stupidity of commercials, but I’ll spare my readers that vitriol. My point is that there are too many commercials, and too many of them are just plain stupid. Advertisers must believe the famous quote variously attributed to P. T. Barnum and F. W. Woolworth; ‘No one ever went bankrupt by underestimating the good taste of the American public.’
Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024
The Benefits and Dangers of Using Viagra
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Viagra, a little blue pill introduced by Pfizer in 1998, revolutionized the treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED). For many men, Viagra has provided a renewed sense of confidence and intimacy in their relationships. However, while its benefits are widely celebrated, the potential dangers and side effects warrant careful consideration. Understanding both the positive and negative aspects of Viagra use is essential for anyone considering it as a solution for sexual enjoyment or health issues.
The primary benefit of Viagra is its effectiveness in treating erectile disfunction, a condition affecting millions of men worldwide. ED can result from various factors, including age, stress, health conditions, or psychological issues. Viagra works by increasing blood flow to the penis, facilitating an erection in response to sexual stimulation. This physiological assistance can significantly improve sexual performance and satisfaction.
For many men, Viagra has transformed their sexual health and relationships. It not only restores the ability to engage in sexual activity but also enhances overall confidence and emotional well-being. Couples often report improved intimacy and communication, contributing to healthier relationships.
Moreover, Viagra has been studied for potential benefits beyond ED. Research suggests it may help with other conditions like pulmonary arterial hypertension and Raynaud’s phenomenon, showcasing its versatility in medical applications.
Despite its benefits, Viagra is not without risks. The most common side effects include headaches, flushing, indigestion, nasal congestion, and dizziness. While these symptoms are generally mild, they can be bothersome and impact the user’s experience.
More serious, though rare, side effects include sudden hearing loss, vision problems, and priapism, a prolonged and painful erection that requires immediate medical attention. These potential risks necessitate caution and proper medical guidance when using Viagra.
Viagra can also interact with other medications, particularly nitrates used for heart conditions, leading to dangerous drops in blood pressure. Individuals with certain medical histories, such as cardiovascular diseases or severe liver impairment, should avoid Viagra due to heightened risk factors.
Additionally, the psychological dependence on Viagra can pose a concern. Some men may become reliant on the medication, feeling unable to perform sexually without it, which can lead to anxiety and diminished self-esteem.
Viagra’s introduction marked a significant advancement in the treatment of ED, offering substantial benefits for those struggling with this condition. However, its use must be approached with caution, considering the potential side effects and interactions with other medications. Consulting with a healthcare provider is crucial to ensure safe and effective use. Understanding both the benefits and dangers of Viagra allows individuals to make informed decisions, prioritizing their health and well-being while enhancing their sexual enjoyment and health.
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Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: tony Ward, Copyright 2024
Chess and dating, while seemingly disparate activities, share striking similarities that reveal much about strategy, foresight, and interpersonal dynamics. Both involve careful planning, a deep understanding of the other party, and a series of calculated moves to achieve a desirable outcome.
In chess, every move is a part of a larger strategy, aimed at either defense or offense. Players must think several steps ahead, anticipating their opponent’s responses. Similarly, dating requires strategic planning. From choosing the right words during a conversation to planning dates that will impress and create a deeper connection, individuals must think ahead to ensure their actions lead to the desired relationship progress.
Success in chess hinges on understanding the opponent’s style, predicting their moves, and exploiting their weaknesses. In dating, understanding the other person is crucial. Knowing their likes, dislikes, and emotional triggers helps in creating a bond. This understanding allows one to tailor their approach, much like a chess player adapts their strategy based on their opponent’s moves.
Chess players must be adaptable, ready to change their strategy if the game doesn’t go as planned. Similarly, dating requires flexibility. Misunderstandings, unexpected reactions, or changes in circumstances demand that one adjusts their approach. The ability to adapt, whether in chess or dating, often separates success from failure.
Both chess and dating involve risks. In chess, a bold move can lead to victory or a quick defeat. In dating, taking emotional risks, such as expressing feelings or making oneself vulnerable, can strengthen a relationship or lead to rejection. Understanding when to take these risks and when to play it safe is a delicate balance in both arenas.
Patience is a virtue in both chess and dating. A hasty move in chess can result in a blunder that costs the game, just as rushing a relationship can cause it to falter. Timing is everything; knowing when to advance, when to retreat, and when to wait for the right moment is crucial. In dating, allowing the relationship to develop naturally without forcing it ensures a stronger foundation.
The ultimate goal in chess is to checkmate the opponent, while in dating, the goal varies—finding a partner, building a long-term relationship, or simply enjoying the experience. In both, reaching the endgame requires a blend of strategy, understanding, adaptability, risk management, and patience.
In conclusion, chess and dating share a remarkable number of parallels. Both are complex, strategic pursuits that require keen insight, careful planning, and a deep understanding of human behavior. Mastery in either field comes from learning to balance these elements, leading to success whether on the chessboard or in the journey of romantic relationships.
So I’m on my way to go to my first pornographic shoot. I’m nervous, excited, worried I’m gonna get lost. I’ve got my printed MapQuest directions in one hand, skipping music through my six CD changer, trying to decide what an appropriate song to my first porno might be.
I get to the top of this mountain with this amazing ranch home and there’s a big huge red barn, and after I park my car and get out, I can see the ocean in the distance.
I’m still curious who owned the house. It felt like a cross between, kind of a modern bonanza, meets old Hollywood western movie set.
Now we’re talking, I was greeted by someone on the crew. I don’t remember their name of course but Skye Blue was there, and after we exchanged our hugs she escorted me to where I could put my things. I put my outfits, shoes, and other personal items that I kept in a gym bag.
Word got around fast this was my first movie. I thought that everyone was being extra nice to me because it was my first movie. I found out later on other movies sets, that everyone I worked with was nice.
I found the kitchen where there was a ton of food and drinks. A really amazing spread. There was a make up artist and people were hanging out in the kitchen area talking about their lives. Their kids and what they were shooting. It felt completely normal and everyone was very nice to me and nice to each other.
I’m not sure if it was a week or two before I was on the movie set that Skye had asked me if perhaps I might be interested in shooting a movie for her.
I was working as a chat camgirl for her and I was making a decent living. I think we received like $15 an hour base pay plus commission. Skye Blue was definitely ahead of her time. There was one camgirl working there that everybody talked about. She wasn’t there regularly, but when she was there, she was doing privates and making bank. If anybody’s ever worked in the industry, there’s always been at least one of those kind of girls. Not anything bad about them, they just had that “It” factor and well, Stacy Burke had “It” and still does. Just like when I was eating Mexican food at Casa Vega on a double date, and who do we see, George Clooney and Renée Zellweger. She was doing that cute laugh that girls do when they’re really into a guy. And of course she was doing that because George had this glow about him as if he had that Barbara Walters lens that all the camera guys used to joke around about. Is that still a thing? Anyways, where was I? Back to the movie.
I’m not sure where exactly I laid eyes on what would be my future boyfriend. If I were to guess I would say in the kitchen because I love food.
He was goofy, with all these amazing tattoos. But more importantly, he made me laugh. That is truly the gateway to my heart!
We made our way over to the site where they were shooting a scene. Obviously, the bed was unoccupied. If you know, you know.
Me and the photographer laid horizontally, clothes on of course, across the bed like two kids in the 1970s sitting on orange shag carpet in my friends dad‘s house watching Deep Throat on VHS. I was fascinated, excited, I had never seen anything like it. I also felt sorry for Linda because some thing was wrong with her throat.. Anyway, my relationship with the photographer will be important later, and I will come back to that in another story. Now it was my turn for “Action”!
Late into the evening it was finally my turn to shoot my scene. I’m led out to the set by our very own “Scotty” to where we will be shooting my scene. I had met my costar earlier in the day and she was super nice about everything and more. Sindee Coxx had been in the business for quite a while and has made a lot of adult films. She was super nice, funny, she had an infectious laugh, she was the complete 1990’s adult film starlight. I’m sure working with Sindee made Skye’s job a lot easier. That day we walked out to the set, which was outside. It was now nightfall and it was pretty cold. One thing you should know about me is that I don’t like to be cold. The premise of the story is that I am a slave girl and naturally, would be naked. The lighting was great. Everybody was on set and Sky talked about what she wanted to shoot and I believe she told me to enjoy myself.
We start off with Sindee inspecting my body. She orders me to stick out my tongue, and then she pulled on my tongue ring which was a surprise to me. Sindee instructed me to remove my bottoms that had buckles to keep them up. Then she presents to me some green fruit that has a slit in it. It looks like a vagina. Wearing this amazing vinyl outfit, and I will note that it is because she has clothes on LOL,
She holds the fruit in front of her, instructing me to lick it. She’s fully clothed and I’m naked on my knees facing her and plunging my tongue deep into this green fruit. I might note that I have never done this before in my life, but my rules for working in adult is, if I would not do it in my personal life, I certainly was not going to do it on film.
So I’m eating out green fruit. I can’t remember all the details about the movie. I do remember freezing my ass off and that Sindee was amazing and it was a great experience. I thought to be fair, i’d watch the movie to see if it reminds me of anything that I’m forgetting or any points I don’t wanna miss. I don’t think people realize how long it takes to shoot good porn. Now I’m sitting here watching fetish island and she has me fingering the big hard green fruit. I Jam my fingers in there and pull them out and suck on them. I look up. Cindy‘s breast are exposed and she’s got a banana in her hand.
She put it into position of where her dick would be if she had one and instructed me to blow her. Of course, I’m blowing the banana deep throating it, which I do remember starting to gag on the banana, and mind you this is something I’ve never done on camera before. I think I was so comfortable because of the crew and the cameraman, Barry Wood. He was very good at camera work. Looking back, I probably should have paid more attention to what goes on behind the camera.
Anyways, at one point, the banana goes down the wrong way and I’m trying not to gag and I know we’re filming and a single tear runs down my cheek. Barry was over the moon that he caught it on film.
I have to say, re-watching it now, It does look really good and ties everything together. I wish I could say that I shed that tear on purpose.
I peel the banana with my teeth and then she asks me to remove her clothes so I takeoff her vinyl outfit. She lays back on the lounge chair and has me worship her feet. I’ve never worshiped anyone’s feet before. I guess it was just instinct. I look at her and suck on them. She put a Maraschino cherry on the top of her foot and I eat it off. I told the crew that I knew how to tie a cherry stem in a knot. They all laughed and instructed me to tie the stem, which, of course I really did not know how to do.
Five more Marcinho cherries between her toes I eat another one. I’m glad they didn’t have me eat all five.
Sindee starts kissing me and quietly tells me to suck on her tongue. We kiss pretty passionately. My nipples are so hard and I’m freezing, as the saying goes, I could probably cut glass.
Sindee licks my tits and hard nipples and then asks me to lean back on the chaise lounge. Once again, I lay down horizontally. Sindee has these amazing green eyes.
I’m looking down at her while she is licking my pussy, and while I was being filmed. With the hair and make up people standing by for touch ups was the closest to Hollywood starlet I would ever feel. Watching my first movie again, hearing the super loud synthesizer adult music. I wish the crew would’ve left the portable propane powered heater that we were able to use between takes on. They said it was too loud to film with it on.
She bends me over and fucks me with a strap on. Sindee shoves a bunch of grapes in my mouth to be quiet. Now looking at it feels like an OSHA violation. That’s a joke for those of you that do not know me yet.
I climaxed all over the dildo, I might add we used my own personal strap on in the film which I still have. The scene ends with Sindee caressing my body.
Before I knew it the shoot was wrapped for the day and it was time to go home. I remember having such a great time, and it was such a positive experience. I was excited to shoot another movie, I’m sure I asked Skye when was the next movie. Watching my first movie yesterday after 20 years has filled my brain with lots of thoughts. I’m sad I left the adult industry when I did, not because I necessarily wanted to, but because my family once they found out my new career choice were determined to make my life difficult, actually they tried everything in their power to destroy me.
Most of the boyfriends I had during my time in the industry, said they were fine that I was a porn star, but later in the relationship the comments, guilt trips, and arguments before and after shoots were exhausting What’s funny is I mostly dated people that had something to do with adult or mainstream films. I wish I had the courage I have today to not allow others to influence my life choices without thinking of what I want. And standing tall and proud in my decisions.
Matt Sampson aka The Sneaker King. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024.
The Stylish Allure
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Why Men Have More Sex Appeal When They Wear a Scarf
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Scarves have been a staple in fashion for centuries, offering both practicality and style. However, there’s an often overlooked aspect of this accessory: its ability to enhance a man’s sex appeal. The combination of history, aesthetics, and the subtle signals scarves send contribute to their irresistible charm.
A Brief History of the Scarf
The scarf’s origins can be traced back to ancient times. In ancient Rome, men wore a “sudarium,” a linen cloth used to wipe sweat from the face and neck. This evolved into a status symbol, and by the 17th century, Croatian mercenaries introduced the “cravat” to France, which became a fashionable accessory among European nobility. Over the centuries, the scarf has transformed from a functional item to a statement piece in men’s fashion, symbolizing sophistication, intellect, and a touch of mystery.
Why Scarves Enhance Sex Appeal
1. Sophistication and Style
A well-chosen scarf adds an element of sophistication to a man’s outfit. It signifies attention to detail and an understanding of fashion, traits often associated with confidence and refinement. A man who can pull off a scarf effortlessly is seen as stylish and self-assured, qualities that are undeniably attractive.
2. Versatility and Adaptability
Scarves offer a range of styles, fabrics, and ways to wear them, showcasing a man’s versatility. Whether it’s a casual look with a lightweight cotton scarf or a more formal appearance with a luxurious cashmere wrap, scarves allow men to adapt their style to different occasions. This adaptability can be very appealing, suggesting a man who is flexible and dynamic.
3. Accentuating Features
A scarf can draw attention to a man’s facial features, highlighting the jawline or framing the face. The added layer around the neck can create a sense of depth and dimension, making the wearer more visually intriguing. It also suggests a certain level of care in grooming and appearance, enhancing overall attractiveness.
4. Cultural and Historical Resonance
Wearing a scarf can evoke cultural and historical associations. From the intellectual charm of European artists to the rugged allure of aviators and adventurers, scarves carry a rich tapestry of masculine imagery. This historical resonance adds depth and character, making the wearer appear more interesting and engaging.
In conclusion, the scarf is more than just a functional accessory; it’s a powerful tool in a man’s fashion arsenal. Its ability to convey sophistication, versatility, and historical depth makes it a unique enhancer of sex appeal. So, gentlemen, next time you step out, consider adding a scarf to your ensemble—it’s a small touch that can make a big difference.
Editor’s Note: Matt Sampson aka The Sneaker King is wearing KVaughn’s white 100% linen scarf from the Summer 2024 collection.
