Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024
The Benefits and Dangers of Using Viagra
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Viagra, a little blue pill introduced by Pfizer in 1998, revolutionized the treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED). For many men, Viagra has provided a renewed sense of confidence and intimacy in their relationships. However, while its benefits are widely celebrated, the potential dangers and side effects warrant careful consideration. Understanding both the positive and negative aspects of Viagra use is essential for anyone considering it as a solution for sexual enjoyment or health issues.
The primary benefit of Viagra is its effectiveness in treating erectile disfunction, a condition affecting millions of men worldwide. ED can result from various factors, including age, stress, health conditions, or psychological issues. Viagra works by increasing blood flow to the penis, facilitating an erection in response to sexual stimulation. This physiological assistance can significantly improve sexual performance and satisfaction.
For many men, Viagra has transformed their sexual health and relationships. It not only restores the ability to engage in sexual activity but also enhances overall confidence and emotional well-being. Couples often report improved intimacy and communication, contributing to healthier relationships.
Moreover, Viagra has been studied for potential benefits beyond ED. Research suggests it may help with other conditions like pulmonary arterial hypertension and Raynaud’s phenomenon, showcasing its versatility in medical applications.
Despite its benefits, Viagra is not without risks. The most common side effects include headaches, flushing, indigestion, nasal congestion, and dizziness. While these symptoms are generally mild, they can be bothersome and impact the user’s experience.
More serious, though rare, side effects include sudden hearing loss, vision problems, and priapism, a prolonged and painful erection that requires immediate medical attention. These potential risks necessitate caution and proper medical guidance when using Viagra.
Viagra can also interact with other medications, particularly nitrates used for heart conditions, leading to dangerous drops in blood pressure. Individuals with certain medical histories, such as cardiovascular diseases or severe liver impairment, should avoid Viagra due to heightened risk factors.
Additionally, the psychological dependence on Viagra can pose a concern. Some men may become reliant on the medication, feeling unable to perform sexually without it, which can lead to anxiety and diminished self-esteem.
Viagra’s introduction marked a significant advancement in the treatment of ED, offering substantial benefits for those struggling with this condition. However, its use must be approached with caution, considering the potential side effects and interactions with other medications. Consulting with a healthcare provider is crucial to ensure safe and effective use. Understanding both the benefits and dangers of Viagra allows individuals to make informed decisions, prioritizing their health and well-being while enhancing their sexual enjoyment and health.
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Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: tony Ward, Copyright 2024
So I’m on my way to go to my first pornographic shoot. I’m nervous, excited, worried I’m gonna get lost. I’ve got my printed MapQuest directions in one hand, skipping music through my six CD changer, trying to decide what an appropriate song to my first porno might be.
I get to the top of this mountain with this amazing ranch home and there’s a big huge red barn, and after I park my car and get out, I can see the ocean in the distance.
I’m still curious who owned the house. It felt like a cross between, kind of a modern bonanza, meets old Hollywood western movie set.
Now we’re talking, I was greeted by someone on the crew. I don’t remember their name of course but Skye Blue was there, and after we exchanged our hugs she escorted me to where I could put my things. I put my outfits, shoes, and other personal items that I kept in a gym bag.
Word got around fast this was my first movie. I thought that everyone was being extra nice to me because it was my first movie. I found out later on other movies sets, that everyone I worked with was nice.
I found the kitchen where there was a ton of food and drinks. A really amazing spread. There was a make up artist and people were hanging out in the kitchen area talking about their lives. Their kids and what they were shooting. It felt completely normal and everyone was very nice to me and nice to each other.
I’m not sure if it was a week or two before I was on the movie set that Skye had asked me if perhaps I might be interested in shooting a movie for her.
I was working as a chat camgirl for her and I was making a decent living. I think we received like $15 an hour base pay plus commission. Skye Blue was definitely ahead of her time. There was one camgirl working there that everybody talked about. She wasn’t there regularly, but when she was there, she was doing privates and making bank. If anybody’s ever worked in the industry, there’s always been at least one of those kind of girls. Not anything bad about them, they just had that “It” factor and well, Stacy Burke had “It” and still does. Just like when I was eating Mexican food at Casa Vega on a double date, and who do we see, George Clooney and Renée Zellweger. She was doing that cute laugh that girls do when they’re really into a guy. And of course she was doing that because George had this glow about him as if he had that Barbara Walters lens that all the camera guys used to joke around about. Is that still a thing? Anyways, where was I? Back to the movie.
I’m not sure where exactly I laid eyes on what would be my future boyfriend. If I were to guess I would say in the kitchen because I love food.
He was goofy, with all these amazing tattoos. But more importantly, he made me laugh. That is truly the gateway to my heart!
We made our way over to the site where they were shooting a scene. Obviously, the bed was unoccupied. If you know, you know.
Me and the photographer laid horizontally, clothes on of course, across the bed like two kids in the 1970s sitting on orange shag carpet in my friends dad‘s house watching Deep Throat on VHS. I was fascinated, excited, I had never seen anything like it. I also felt sorry for Linda because some thing was wrong with her throat.. Anyway, my relationship with the photographer will be important later, and I will come back to that in another story. Now it was my turn for “Action”!
Late into the evening it was finally my turn to shoot my scene. I’m led out to the set by our very own “Scotty” to where we will be shooting my scene. I had met my costar earlier in the day and she was super nice about everything and more. Sindee Coxx had been in the business for quite a while and has made a lot of adult films. She was super nice, funny, she had an infectious laugh, she was the complete 1990’s adult film starlight. I’m sure working with Sindee made Skye’s job a lot easier. That day we walked out to the set, which was outside. It was now nightfall and it was pretty cold. One thing you should know about me is that I don’t like to be cold. The premise of the story is that I am a slave girl and naturally, would be naked. The lighting was great. Everybody was on set and Sky talked about what she wanted to shoot and I believe she told me to enjoy myself.
We start off with Sindee inspecting my body. She orders me to stick out my tongue, and then she pulled on my tongue ring which was a surprise to me. Sindee instructed me to remove my bottoms that had buckles to keep them up. Then she presents to me some green fruit that has a slit in it. It looks like a vagina. Wearing this amazing vinyl outfit, and I will note that it is because she has clothes on LOL,
She holds the fruit in front of her, instructing me to lick it. She’s fully clothed and I’m naked on my knees facing her and plunging my tongue deep into this green fruit. I might note that I have never done this before in my life, but my rules for working in adult is, if I would not do it in my personal life, I certainly was not going to do it on film.
So I’m eating out green fruit. I can’t remember all the details about the movie. I do remember freezing my ass off and that Sindee was amazing and it was a great experience. I thought to be fair, i’d watch the movie to see if it reminds me of anything that I’m forgetting or any points I don’t wanna miss. I don’t think people realize how long it takes to shoot good porn. Now I’m sitting here watching fetish island and she has me fingering the big hard green fruit. I Jam my fingers in there and pull them out and suck on them. I look up. Cindy‘s breast are exposed and she’s got a banana in her hand.
She put it into position of where her dick would be if she had one and instructed me to blow her. Of course, I’m blowing the banana deep throating it, which I do remember starting to gag on the banana, and mind you this is something I’ve never done on camera before. I think I was so comfortable because of the crew and the cameraman, Barry Wood. He was very good at camera work. Looking back, I probably should have paid more attention to what goes on behind the camera.
Anyways, at one point, the banana goes down the wrong way and I’m trying not to gag and I know we’re filming and a single tear runs down my cheek. Barry was over the moon that he caught it on film.
I have to say, re-watching it now, It does look really good and ties everything together. I wish I could say that I shed that tear on purpose.
I peel the banana with my teeth and then she asks me to remove her clothes so I takeoff her vinyl outfit. She lays back on the lounge chair and has me worship her feet. I’ve never worshiped anyone’s feet before. I guess it was just instinct. I look at her and suck on them. She put a Maraschino cherry on the top of her foot and I eat it off. I told the crew that I knew how to tie a cherry stem in a knot. They all laughed and instructed me to tie the stem, which, of course I really did not know how to do.
Five more Marcinho cherries between her toes I eat another one. I’m glad they didn’t have me eat all five.
Sindee starts kissing me and quietly tells me to suck on her tongue. We kiss pretty passionately. My nipples are so hard and I’m freezing, as the saying goes, I could probably cut glass.
Sindee licks my tits and hard nipples and then asks me to lean back on the chaise lounge. Once again, I lay down horizontally. Sindee has these amazing green eyes.
I’m looking down at her while she is licking my pussy, and while I was being filmed. With the hair and make up people standing by for touch ups was the closest to Hollywood starlet I would ever feel. Watching my first movie again, hearing the super loud synthesizer adult music. I wish the crew would’ve left the portable propane powered heater that we were able to use between takes on. They said it was too loud to film with it on.
She bends me over and fucks me with a strap on. Sindee shoves a bunch of grapes in my mouth to be quiet. Now looking at it feels like an OSHA violation. That’s a joke for those of you that do not know me yet.
I climaxed all over the dildo, I might add we used my own personal strap on in the film which I still have. The scene ends with Sindee caressing my body.
Before I knew it the shoot was wrapped for the day and it was time to go home. I remember having such a great time, and it was such a positive experience. I was excited to shoot another movie, I’m sure I asked Skye when was the next movie. Watching my first movie yesterday after 20 years has filled my brain with lots of thoughts. I’m sad I left the adult industry when I did, not because I necessarily wanted to, but because my family once they found out my new career choice were determined to make my life difficult, actually they tried everything in their power to destroy me.
Most of the boyfriends I had during my time in the industry, said they were fine that I was a porn star, but later in the relationship the comments, guilt trips, and arguments before and after shoots were exhausting What’s funny is I mostly dated people that had something to do with adult or mainstream films. I wish I had the courage I have today to not allow others to influence my life choices without thinking of what I want. And standing tall and proud in my decisions.
Matt Sampson aka The Sneaker King. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024.
The Stylish Allure
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Why Men Have More Sex Appeal When They Wear a Scarf
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Scarves have been a staple in fashion for centuries, offering both practicality and style. However, there’s an often overlooked aspect of this accessory: its ability to enhance a man’s sex appeal. The combination of history, aesthetics, and the subtle signals scarves send contribute to their irresistible charm.
A Brief History of the Scarf
The scarf’s origins can be traced back to ancient times. In ancient Rome, men wore a “sudarium,” a linen cloth used to wipe sweat from the face and neck. This evolved into a status symbol, and by the 17th century, Croatian mercenaries introduced the “cravat” to France, which became a fashionable accessory among European nobility. Over the centuries, the scarf has transformed from a functional item to a statement piece in men’s fashion, symbolizing sophistication, intellect, and a touch of mystery.
Why Scarves Enhance Sex Appeal
1. Sophistication and Style
A well-chosen scarf adds an element of sophistication to a man’s outfit. It signifies attention to detail and an understanding of fashion, traits often associated with confidence and refinement. A man who can pull off a scarf effortlessly is seen as stylish and self-assured, qualities that are undeniably attractive.
2. Versatility and Adaptability
Scarves offer a range of styles, fabrics, and ways to wear them, showcasing a man’s versatility. Whether it’s a casual look with a lightweight cotton scarf or a more formal appearance with a luxurious cashmere wrap, scarves allow men to adapt their style to different occasions. This adaptability can be very appealing, suggesting a man who is flexible and dynamic.
3. Accentuating Features
A scarf can draw attention to a man’s facial features, highlighting the jawline or framing the face. The added layer around the neck can create a sense of depth and dimension, making the wearer more visually intriguing. It also suggests a certain level of care in grooming and appearance, enhancing overall attractiveness.
4. Cultural and Historical Resonance
Wearing a scarf can evoke cultural and historical associations. From the intellectual charm of European artists to the rugged allure of aviators and adventurers, scarves carry a rich tapestry of masculine imagery. This historical resonance adds depth and character, making the wearer appear more interesting and engaging.
In conclusion, the scarf is more than just a functional accessory; it’s a powerful tool in a man’s fashion arsenal. Its ability to convey sophistication, versatility, and historical depth makes it a unique enhancer of sex appeal. So, gentlemen, next time you step out, consider adding a scarf to your ensemble—it’s a small touch that can make a big difference.
Editor’s Note: Matt Sampson aka The Sneaker King is wearing KVaughn’s white 100% linen scarf from the Summer 2024 collection.
Lexington Steele in Atlantic City. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024
The 1951 song “It Ain’t the Meat (It’s the Motion)” by Lois Mann and Henry Glover has become a classic example of double entendre in popular music. On the surface, the song appears to be a humorous ode to the joys of eating, with its catchy melody and playful lyrics. However, beneath the veneer of innocent food metaphors lies a deeper, more suggestive meaning that explores the themes of sexual desire and satisfaction.
The song’s title itself sets the tone, using the common phrase “it ain’t the meat, it’s the motion” as a clever play on words. While the lyrical content ostensibly describes the pleasures of consuming various dishes, the language employed is rife with innuendo and euphemisms that allude to the act of lovemaking.
Through this clever use of metaphor, the songwriters touch upon the universal human experiences of passion, intimacy, and the pursuit of pleasure. The lyrics celebrate the importance of technique and attentiveness in achieving fulfillment, suggesting that true satisfaction lies not in the superficial aspects but in the nuances and subtleties of the experience itself.
Despite its risqué undertones, the song manages to maintain a sense of lightheartedness and humor, reflecting the playful spirit of the era in which it was written. It serves as a reminder that even in the face of societal constraints and taboos, artists have found creative ways to explore and express the complexities of human desire.
While “It Ain’t the Meat (It’s the Motion)” may have initially raised eyebrows with its cheeky double meanings, it has since become a beloved classic, embraced for its wit, cleverness, and ability to address a subject often shrouded in secrecy or shame with a wink and a smile.
When I am asked the question, “how did you meet your significant other,” by people who are in the scene, I always find myself devilishly chuckling. “You know the film, Secretary? I met my better half pretty much the exact same way.”
I was fresh out of college, my first “big girl” job in NYC. It was my very first day on the job and I was getting the scoop on the various employees of the firm. Everything seemed to be par for the course until they told me about him. “Oh, he ties women from his ceiling,” was the nonchalant narrative I was provided with – absolutely nothing else. I sat there at lunch, bewildered, since I had never heard of such a thing in my life. From that moment on, every time he walked past my cubicle to be on his merry way to start his day, I quietly said to myself, “I wanna know what you do.”
I finally received the answer to my burning curiosity about him. One day, he offered to treat me to lunch. Here I am, finally sitting with him, one on one. He is handsome, well-spoken, well-mannered, intelligent – his presence alone commands attention and respect. As I sat there, waiting for the right moment to ask what had been preoccupying my mind for months, it was as if he read my mind and simply said, “I am into BDSM.” “Oh, really,” I said, shyly. At the time, I was vanilla, maybe had some kink elements, but didn’t know about the endless possibilities. I had never met anyone like him before who openly talked about a rather private, intimate subject – let alone to a coworker. I was intrigued, definitely interested and as I listened intently, I found myself saying, “please, tell me more.”
I asked him one evening (yes, you read that correctly), if he wanted to hang out and grab a drink. Little did I know that evening out would open the door to this whole other dimension of exploration – the realm of BDSM.
Since we worked together, we found creative ways to enforce our dynamic. Our little secret. In the morning, I would waltz into his office to say, “good morning, Sir.” In response, with a smirk on his face, I was given a butt plug and a small packet of lube. I’d scurry away to the bathroom and upon my return, I gave him my underwear as “collateral,” which he kept in the breast pocket of his suit, right behind his handkerchief and he would respond quietly with, “good girl.”
The impact those two simple words had on me caused chills up and down my spine. The anticipation of what was to come later that evening when we were to embrace at the end of the work day made my heart pound. How was it possible for this man to have such control over my body and mind that I was so willing and eager to give it up? But, also, how on Earth did I manage to meet this person of all places, at work!
Much like the movie I so often reference when asked this question, my life followed suit. This once co-worker turned into my dominant who eventually turned into my husband. Who would have thought?
