Online dating has revolutionized the way people connect, offering a convenient platform to meet potential partners. With millions of users worldwide, dating apps have become a mainstream avenue for romance. However, while they offer exciting opportunities, online dating also comes with certain risks. Understanding both the rewards and the potential pitfalls is essential for navigating this modern dating landscape.
The Rewards of Online Dating
Convenience and Accessibility:
One of the biggest advantages of online dating is its convenience. Users can connect with potential matches from the comfort of their homes, making it easier to meet people they might not encounter in everyday life.
Expanded Dating Pool:
Dating apps allow individuals to broaden their horizons. Instead of being limited to their immediate social circles, users can meet people from different cities, countries, and cultural backgrounds. This expanded pool increases the chances of finding a compatible partner.
Compatibility Matching:
Many dating apps use advanced algorithms and personality tests to suggest compatible matches. This data-driven approach can help people find individuals with shared interests, values, and relationship goals, potentially leading to more meaningful connections.
Efficient Screening:
Online profiles give users a quick glimpse into a person’s interests, lifestyle, and values. This can save time by allowing individuals to filter out incompatible matches early on.
Success Stories:
While online dating once carried a stigma, it has become a common way to meet long-term partners. Many couples who meet online go on to marry or build lasting relationships, making it a viable option for those seeking love.
The Risks of Online Dating
Misrepresentation and Deception:
Not everyone is truthful in their profiles. Some users exaggerate or fabricate details, while others may use fake photos. This can lead to disappointment or even dangerous situations when meeting in person.
Privacy Concerns:
Sharing personal information on dating apps carries privacy risks. Data breaches or scams can expose users’ sensitive information, leading to potential identity theft or fraud.
Emotional Disappointment:
Online dating can sometimes be emotionally draining. Ghosting, rejection, or inconsistent communication can lead to frustration and disappointment.
Scams and Catfishing:
Some scammers use dating platforms to exploit vulnerable individuals, posing as potential partners to gain financial benefits or manipulate emotions.
Superficial Connections:
The swiping culture of many apps encourages snap judgments based on appearance, which can lead to superficial connections and missed opportunities for meaningful relationships.
Top 5 Most Successful Dating Apps for Male-Female Romance
Tinder: Known for its swipe-based system, Tinder is one of the most popular apps, catering to casual dating and serious relationships alike.
Bumble: This app empowers women by allowing them to initiate conversations, making it a favorite for female users.
Hinge: Marketed as the app “designed to be deleted,” Hinge focuses on fostering genuine, long-term connections.
OkCupid: With in-depth profiles and compatibility quizzes, OkCupid appeals to users seeking more detailed insights into potential matches.
Match.com: One of the oldest online dating platforms, Match.com is known for its focus on serious relationships and its large user base.
Online dating offers a modern and accessible way to meet potential partners, but it’s not without its challenges. By being mindful of the risks, practicing caution, and choosing reputable platforms, individuals can increase their chances of finding meaningful connections while staying safe in the digital dating world.
Circumcision has been a topic of debate for decades, with parents weighing the potential benefits and risks. While some opt out of the procedure for cultural, religious, or personal reasons, medical research suggests there are certain health risks associated with leaving a newborn uncircumcised.
Studies show that uncircumcised male infants have a significantly higher risk of urinary tract infections. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP), the risk of UTIs in uncircumcised boys during their first year of life is about 1 in 100, compared to 1 in 1,000 in circumcised infants. UTIs can lead to kidney infections and, in severe cases, long-term kidney damage.
As uncircumcised boys grow into adulthood, they may face a higher likelihood of contracting sexually transmitted infections. Research from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) indicates that circumcision reduces the risk of HIV transmission by 60% among heterosexual men in high-risk areas. Other studies suggest it also lowers the chances of contracting human papillomavirus (HPV) and herpes.
Uncircumcised males are more susceptible to inflammation of the foreskin (balanitis) and a condition called phimosis, where the foreskin becomes too tight to retract. These conditions can cause pain, infection, and difficulty with hygiene. A study published in the Journal of Urology found that up to 10% of uncircumcised males may experience phimosis, requiring medical intervention.
Proper hygiene is essential for uncircumcised males to prevent bacterial buildup under the foreskin. Young boys and aging men may struggle with cleaning properly, increasing the risk of infections. Poor hygiene has also been linked to an increased risk of penile cancer, though this remains rare.
While circumcision remains a personal choice, medical evidence suggests that it offers several health benefits. Parents should consult with their pediatrician to make an informed decision based on medical facts and cultural considerations.
Text by Brian Hunt, Owner Ethimo Foto, Copyright 2025
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A Classic Session With Lumen Foxx
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My subject for this particular shoot is Lumen Foxx. She is a classically trained dancer who I chose for her ability to hold poses requiring strength and balance. The ceiling height and exposed beam at Tony Ward Studio allowed me to hang a heavy mooring rope for Lumen to create poses with. During lighting changes Lumen would study the portraiture on the studio walls, which also serves as a gallery space. Sometimes the photographs provoked her to ask questions about the work on display, which honestly enhanced our working rapport more than I expected.
Photo: Ethimo Foto, Copyright 2025
TWS is like visiting a gallery or a museum, the environment promotes a discussion of ideas, and the sharing of lifes stories. Quickly we found ourselves in a steady flow of poses as if we were trying to outdo the subjects who were depicted on the walls. Near the end of our time TW peeked in to check on us, and answered questions about several of the key pieces in the studio on exhibit. After hearing the backstories on a few of the pieces, Lumen and I rallied for one last set of poses that turned out to be some of the strongest material of the day. I can’t help but think that the vibes emanating from Tony Ward Studio and the and the visit from Tony himself attributed to a grand finale.
Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: Tony Ward, Copyright 2024
The Benefits and Dangers of Using Viagra
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Viagra, a little blue pill introduced by Pfizer in 1998, revolutionized the treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED). For many men, Viagra has provided a renewed sense of confidence and intimacy in their relationships. However, while its benefits are widely celebrated, the potential dangers and side effects warrant careful consideration. Understanding both the positive and negative aspects of Viagra use is essential for anyone considering it as a solution for sexual enjoyment or health issues.
The primary benefit of Viagra is its effectiveness in treating erectile disfunction, a condition affecting millions of men worldwide. ED can result from various factors, including age, stress, health conditions, or psychological issues. Viagra works by increasing blood flow to the penis, facilitating an erection in response to sexual stimulation. This physiological assistance can significantly improve sexual performance and satisfaction.
For many men, Viagra has transformed their sexual health and relationships. It not only restores the ability to engage in sexual activity but also enhances overall confidence and emotional well-being. Couples often report improved intimacy and communication, contributing to healthier relationships.
Moreover, Viagra has been studied for potential benefits beyond ED. Research suggests it may help with other conditions like pulmonary arterial hypertension and Raynaud’s phenomenon, showcasing its versatility in medical applications.
Despite its benefits, Viagra is not without risks. The most common side effects include headaches, flushing, indigestion, nasal congestion, and dizziness. While these symptoms are generally mild, they can be bothersome and impact the user’s experience.
More serious, though rare, side effects include sudden hearing loss, vision problems, and priapism, a prolonged and painful erection that requires immediate medical attention. These potential risks necessitate caution and proper medical guidance when using Viagra.
Viagra can also interact with other medications, particularly nitrates used for heart conditions, leading to dangerous drops in blood pressure. Individuals with certain medical histories, such as cardiovascular diseases or severe liver impairment, should avoid Viagra due to heightened risk factors.
Additionally, the psychological dependence on Viagra can pose a concern. Some men may become reliant on the medication, feeling unable to perform sexually without it, which can lead to anxiety and diminished self-esteem.
Viagra’s introduction marked a significant advancement in the treatment of ED, offering substantial benefits for those struggling with this condition. However, its use must be approached with caution, considering the potential side effects and interactions with other medications. Consulting with a healthcare provider is crucial to ensure safe and effective use. Understanding both the benefits and dangers of Viagra allows individuals to make informed decisions, prioritizing their health and well-being while enhancing their sexual enjoyment and health.
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Model: Kasheem Peterson. Photo: tony Ward, Copyright 2024
So I’m on my way to go to my first pornographic shoot. I’m nervous, excited, worried I’m gonna get lost. I’ve got my printed MapQuest directions in one hand, skipping music through my six CD changer, trying to decide what an appropriate song to my first porno might be.
I get to the top of this mountain with this amazing ranch home and there’s a big huge red barn, and after I park my car and get out, I can see the ocean in the distance.
I’m still curious who owned the house. It felt like a cross between, kind of a modern bonanza, meets old Hollywood western movie set.
Now we’re talking, I was greeted by someone on the crew. I don’t remember their name of course but Skye Blue was there, and after we exchanged our hugs she escorted me to where I could put my things. I put my outfits, shoes, and other personal items that I kept in a gym bag.
Word got around fast this was my first movie. I thought that everyone was being extra nice to me because it was my first movie. I found out later on other movies sets, that everyone I worked with was nice.
I found the kitchen where there was a ton of food and drinks. A really amazing spread. There was a make up artist and people were hanging out in the kitchen area talking about their lives. Their kids and what they were shooting. It felt completely normal and everyone was very nice to me and nice to each other.
I’m not sure if it was a week or two before I was on the movie set that Skye had asked me if perhaps I might be interested in shooting a movie for her.
I was working as a chat camgirl for her and I was making a decent living. I think we received like $15 an hour base pay plus commission. Skye Blue was definitely ahead of her time. There was one camgirl working there that everybody talked about. She wasn’t there regularly, but when she was there, she was doing privates and making bank. If anybody’s ever worked in the industry, there’s always been at least one of those kind of girls. Not anything bad about them, they just had that “It” factor and well, Stacy Burke had “It” and still does. Just like when I was eating Mexican food at Casa Vega on a double date, and who do we see, George Clooney and Renée Zellweger. She was doing that cute laugh that girls do when they’re really into a guy. And of course she was doing that because George had this glow about him as if he had that Barbara Walters lens that all the camera guys used to joke around about. Is that still a thing? Anyways, where was I? Back to the movie.
I’m not sure where exactly I laid eyes on what would be my future boyfriend. If I were to guess I would say in the kitchen because I love food.
He was goofy, with all these amazing tattoos. But more importantly, he made me laugh. That is truly the gateway to my heart!
We made our way over to the site where they were shooting a scene. Obviously, the bed was unoccupied. If you know, you know.
Me and the photographer laid horizontally, clothes on of course, across the bed like two kids in the 1970s sitting on orange shag carpet in my friends dad‘s house watching Deep Throat on VHS. I was fascinated, excited, I had never seen anything like it. I also felt sorry for Linda because some thing was wrong with her throat.. Anyway, my relationship with the photographer will be important later, and I will come back to that in another story. Now it was my turn for “Action”!
Late into the evening it was finally my turn to shoot my scene. I’m led out to the set by our very own “Scotty” to where we will be shooting my scene. I had met my costar earlier in the day and she was super nice about everything and more. Sindee Coxx had been in the business for quite a while and has made a lot of adult films. She was super nice, funny, she had an infectious laugh, she was the complete 1990’s adult film starlight. I’m sure working with Sindee made Skye’s job a lot easier. That day we walked out to the set, which was outside. It was now nightfall and it was pretty cold. One thing you should know about me is that I don’t like to be cold. The premise of the story is that I am a slave girl and naturally, would be naked. The lighting was great. Everybody was on set and Sky talked about what she wanted to shoot and I believe she told me to enjoy myself.
We start off with Sindee inspecting my body. She orders me to stick out my tongue, and then she pulled on my tongue ring which was a surprise to me. Sindee instructed me to remove my bottoms that had buckles to keep them up. Then she presents to me some green fruit that has a slit in it. It looks like a vagina. Wearing this amazing vinyl outfit, and I will note that it is because she has clothes on LOL,
She holds the fruit in front of her, instructing me to lick it. She’s fully clothed and I’m naked on my knees facing her and plunging my tongue deep into this green fruit. I might note that I have never done this before in my life, but my rules for working in adult is, if I would not do it in my personal life, I certainly was not going to do it on film.
So I’m eating out green fruit. I can’t remember all the details about the movie. I do remember freezing my ass off and that Sindee was amazing and it was a great experience. I thought to be fair, i’d watch the movie to see if it reminds me of anything that I’m forgetting or any points I don’t wanna miss. I don’t think people realize how long it takes to shoot good porn. Now I’m sitting here watching fetish island and she has me fingering the big hard green fruit. I Jam my fingers in there and pull them out and suck on them. I look up. Cindy‘s breast are exposed and she’s got a banana in her hand.
She put it into position of where her dick would be if she had one and instructed me to blow her. Of course, I’m blowing the banana deep throating it, which I do remember starting to gag on the banana, and mind you this is something I’ve never done on camera before. I think I was so comfortable because of the crew and the cameraman, Barry Wood. He was very good at camera work. Looking back, I probably should have paid more attention to what goes on behind the camera.
Anyways, at one point, the banana goes down the wrong way and I’m trying not to gag and I know we’re filming and a single tear runs down my cheek. Barry was over the moon that he caught it on film.
I have to say, re-watching it now, It does look really good and ties everything together. I wish I could say that I shed that tear on purpose.
I peel the banana with my teeth and then she asks me to remove her clothes so I takeoff her vinyl outfit. She lays back on the lounge chair and has me worship her feet. I’ve never worshiped anyone’s feet before. I guess it was just instinct. I look at her and suck on them. She put a Maraschino cherry on the top of her foot and I eat it off. I told the crew that I knew how to tie a cherry stem in a knot. They all laughed and instructed me to tie the stem, which, of course I really did not know how to do.
Five more Marcinho cherries between her toes I eat another one. I’m glad they didn’t have me eat all five.
Sindee starts kissing me and quietly tells me to suck on her tongue. We kiss pretty passionately. My nipples are so hard and I’m freezing, as the saying goes, I could probably cut glass.
Sindee licks my tits and hard nipples and then asks me to lean back on the chaise lounge. Once again, I lay down horizontally. Sindee has these amazing green eyes.
I’m looking down at her while she is licking my pussy, and while I was being filmed. With the hair and make up people standing by for touch ups was the closest to Hollywood starlet I would ever feel. Watching my first movie again, hearing the super loud synthesizer adult music. I wish the crew would’ve left the portable propane powered heater that we were able to use between takes on. They said it was too loud to film with it on.
She bends me over and fucks me with a strap on. Sindee shoves a bunch of grapes in my mouth to be quiet. Now looking at it feels like an OSHA violation. That’s a joke for those of you that do not know me yet.
I climaxed all over the dildo, I might add we used my own personal strap on in the film which I still have. The scene ends with Sindee caressing my body.
Before I knew it the shoot was wrapped for the day and it was time to go home. I remember having such a great time, and it was such a positive experience. I was excited to shoot another movie, I’m sure I asked Skye when was the next movie. Watching my first movie yesterday after 20 years has filled my brain with lots of thoughts. I’m sad I left the adult industry when I did, not because I necessarily wanted to, but because my family once they found out my new career choice were determined to make my life difficult, actually they tried everything in their power to destroy me.
Most of the boyfriends I had during my time in the industry, said they were fine that I was a porn star, but later in the relationship the comments, guilt trips, and arguments before and after shoots were exhausting What’s funny is I mostly dated people that had something to do with adult or mainstream films. I wish I had the courage I have today to not allow others to influence my life choices without thinking of what I want. And standing tall and proud in my decisions.
